Better Choices in Making Longer-Term Decisions about Divorce
Just recently I had a client grappling with a decision he needed to make – a decision that had the potential to have a huge impact on his marriage, his future and the future of his children. His friends were leaning on him to take drastic action in...
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The ABC’s of Decision-Making in Divorce
Your client is making decisions about his or her future. These ABC’s of decision making can put the responsibility for being an empowered client back where it belongs.
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The Emotional Story of Divorce Overwhelms the Decision Making
Instead of listening to the emotional story of divorce over and over, the key is to conduct a fact-based exploration of the decisions to be made. But the big questions is, “How do you move from one to the other in an artful way?” The futility of the...
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People Need Divorce Coaches!
The stakes are high in divorce – consider your sanity, your family, your job, and your health. Until relatively recently, the support options for going through divorce were fairly limited. But more and more frequently you will hear references to someone’s...
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Bringing out the Best at Family Holiday Gatherings!
7 Ways to Leave Your 5-year-old at Home and Create Beautiful New Memories! Holidays bring out the best in others and the worst in others. Even if you feel like you are above all that, there is something about getting together with siblings or parents that takes us all...
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Different Perspectives Create Better Outcomes in Divorce Coaching
Yesterday in class one of the course participants had an aha moment – she discovered that she had been so focused on supporting her divorcing clients in a particular way that she realized that may be a blind spot! This Aha moment came while we were discussing various...
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Divorce Mistake # 5: Forgetting Who the Decision-Makers are In Divorce
In our personal lives and business lives we hire experts to advise us what the options are and what is the best solution for us. We go to doctors, accountants, clergy, therapists, lawyers and others to get the answers we need to take action. We ask them, “What is the...
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Time to Get off the Fence and Start Your New Profession as a Certified Divorce Coach!
Let’s face it – there is no “good time” to take on a significant professional development project. We have heard the same comments from people several years in a row. And then they realize that if that want to actually become a certified divorce coach, they have to...
read moreIs it time to Take the Leap?
Do you know that the three biggest months for filing for divorce are January February and March? If you want to be ready to make yourself visible as a Certified Divorce Coach at the beginning of 2018, you can do that if you jump into the course which starts August 29...
read moreWorking with a Client Making Biggest Mistake Number 6 in Divorce: Wanting Guarantees and Certainty
Paralyzed by Uncertainty Lillian is wrapping up the marriage settlement agreement with her husband and she has a lot of concerns. Her concerns could derail the progress they have made over the past few weeks and also in order to convince her to sign the agreement, her...
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