Granted, making sense is not one of the hallmarks of divorce. What isn’t captured in the dictionary definition of divorce is the reality of there being several different aspects of divorce: emotional, financial and legal. And most divorces start with the legal process and not the emotional process.
Divorce means then end of “you” as you may have defined yourself for the years after you assumed the role of spouse and in-law. Along with the role came dreams, plans for the future, and purpose. And yes, some responsibilities, obligations, status and lists of things to do, places to go and family concerns.
This is where a divorce coach can make a big difference – an accessible thinking partner who can help you to deal with the feelings of being overwhelmed and help you to sorts through all of those questions where you are stuck – and ask some new questions
Have you ever been blindsided by upsetting news – like after 15 years of marriage your spouse has decided they don’t want to be married? Or maybe it was being fired from the job you had pursued for years!
Did you have a physical reaction on top of an emotional crisis? Did you lose the ability to think clearly and wondered if you might get swept away by that storm of emotions over the next weeks or months?
The CDC® Program is celebrating its third anniversary and in the spirit of continual improvement in the standards for a divorce coaching practice, graduates are required to satisfy 16 hours of continuing education requirements for recertification.
