Instead of listening to the emotional story of divorce over and over, the key is to conduct a fact-based exploration of the decisions to be made. But the big questions is, “How do you move from one to the other in an artful way?” The futility of the emotional story is draining , and it may seem logical to address the problem with a recommended solution. The problem with this approach is that it has the
opposite effect and it prolongs the agony.
In our upcoming webinar Making Better Decisions- Having a More Credible Client, we take a chapter from our divorce coaching playbook and show you how to refocus your client on fact-based exploration.
How Divorce Coaches Help Clients Respond – Not React – In Difficult Moments
Conflict is an expected part of the divorce process. Even in situations where both individuals are committed to a respectful outcome, tension can arise quickly. Emotions are high. Stakes feel personal. Conversations can shift from productive to reactive in a matter of...
Coaching Clients to Communicate With Intention
Communication during divorce is rarely simple. Even in the most amicable situations, conversations can quickly become emotionally charged, reactive, or unclear. Misunderstandings happen easily. Small moments escalate. Important points get lost. And yet, communication...
Where Divorce Coaching Fits in the Divorce Process
Supporting the Process Without Stepping Over Boundaries Divorce is rarely a solo process. For many individuals, it involves a team of professionals—attorneys, mediators, financial advisors—each playing a critical role in guiding decisions and outcomes. Within this...