Instead of listening to the emotional story of divorce over and over, the key is to conduct a fact-based exploration of the decisions to be made. But the big questions is, “How do you move from one to the other in an artful way?” The futility of the emotional story is draining , and it may seem logical to address the problem with a recommended solution. The problem with this approach is that it has the
opposite effect and it prolongs the agony.
In our upcoming webinar Making Better Decisions- Having a More Credible Client, we take a chapter from our divorce coaching playbook and show you how to refocus your client on fact-based exploration.
The ABC’s of Decision-Making in Divorce
Your client is making decisions about his or her future. These ABC’s of decision making can put the responsibility for being an empowered client back where it belongs.
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Different Perspectives Create Better Outcomes in Divorce Coaching
Yesterday in class one of the course participants had an aha moment – she discovered that she had been so focused on supporting her divorcing clients in a particular way that she realized that may be a blind spot! This Aha moment came while we were discussing various...
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Divorce Mistake # 5: Forgetting Who the Decision-Makers are In Divorce
In our personal lives and business lives we hire experts to advise us what the options are and what is the best solution for us. We go to doctors, accountants, clergy, therapists, lawyers and others to get the answers we need to take action. We ask them, “What is the...
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